11 Steps On How To Get A Girlfriend – The Five Rule Introduction
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If you contact her right away she might feel stifled. However, if you wait too long she might forget who you are or have found another guy she’s interested in. Ask her out to a similar venue.
Communicate your life story to them in a way which is humble, fun, and interested (and creates a little attraction in women) and the right people WILL notice. This rule is here to make sure you don’t just settle for that first girl. To assure you’re not chasing anymore.
Remember, it’s hardly ever about you. Perhaps she has a boyfriend, or perhaps she’s a lesbian.
1. Meet a woman and make her feel sexually attracted to you
Smile, relax your body language and approach in a non confrontational way like you’d do when you’re in Wallmart asking a shelf stacker where the butter’s at. Already have a special girl in mind? If you’ve got her number check out my best advice on what to text a girl a girl you like.
Have high expectations. Having high expectations of people communicates to them that you are high status and not a pushover. This is incredibly attractive to women because it shows her you respect and love yourself. You are sure of yourself and adamant about getting what you want.
- Yes, that can work with some women, but with most attractive women that you meet, their dream is to be able to meet a guy who makes them feel like they need to live up to his expectations.
- Women tend to keep in close touch with their girlfriends, and men keep hitting on her all time — keeping her social motor going.
- Getting a girlfriend is NOT getting the next “hot” girlfriend you see.
- Start with some light conversation, like asking her how her day has been, to put her at ease.
- Simply come up with a good date idea; one where you can speak and get to know each other properly (like a drink or a coffee) and give her a time and a place.
Getting a girlfriend is NOT getting the next “hot” girlfriend you see. Let’s say you land some hot girl by your side and she’s seems really into you – without blowing it entirely with you (you can keep her around to date) but until you’re ready do NOT settle down with her. Make yourself ready and be prepared to do things and say things you’ve never done before. If you’re not seriously committed, not much of this is going to help you get a girlfriend.
Do NOT do this to land the one hot chic you’ve been dreaming of and chasing half your life. You want out of the friends zone – go here. Part of this “prep work” is to lay the foundation for a lifetime of success with women. If you settle too quickly you WILL revert back to your older self and you WILL lose the girl and then have to start all over again. If you settle too early it’s highly likely you’re going to screw it up sooner or later anyways.
Instead, let her give you queues about what she’s comfortable with. When the date or get-together is over, let her know you had a good time and that you hope to do something similar again soon. Call or text the girl you are interested in within one to three days.
Of course, if you’re taking risks and interacting with those women, it also becomes more apparent that they’re just regular people like you. Whatever your story is about why you can’t get a girlfriend — you’re too short, too bald, too poor, too ugly — is not the REAL reason you don’t have a girlfriend. And it’s not about money, status, or power either.
Not only can you look after her, but you also actually think ahead. Some people say not to, but I always bring up past relationships. If you’re sizing her up to be girlfriend material, find out why she and her last partner broke up.
This is your life, and your future…not your friend’s. It would be a bummer to look back on life with regret that you didn’t make that first move or take a relationship you cared about to the next level. Don’t give up on a girl that easily. You probably don’t meet girls who stand out to you on a daily basis, so seize the opportunity.